I wonder why some people take so much interest in the lives of others. Asking us personal questions like are u in a relationship, for how long are u in relationship, how much do u earn, etc. They ask such stupid questions not only to me, but to my other friends and colleagues too. It just irritates me.

Its okay, when they ask once. But when they ask again and again to me and my colleagues, It gets on my nerves. A****les, are u confirming whether I am telling you the truth or not. I am not a liar.

The story begins when we were studying for the toughest course (I won’t name the course :P ). I took a girl (P) as my friend but she turned out to be a foe. I shared everything with her, bur she just passed it on to others. How fool was I then. Trusting her was the dumbest mistake. And she is the idiotest girl I have ever seen.

I have a male friend (just a very good friend, nothing else). I like talking to him. We share everything and can talk on any subject. P takes major interest in all this. Asking us  is there any ‘chakkar’ between us, she has asked this many many times. And now she is asking the same questions to my friends and colleagues. I feel like punching her hard in her face. I feel like slapping her. I feel like squeezing her neck and grounding her. But I have to control. I had never had such urges to do harm to a person. P is the first person for whom my mind speaks out abusive language. I know this is wrong, but I cannot help it. When a guy and a girl are close, there is not always an affair between them.

You all know how it feels when the folks talk about your character. People need something to talk about others. Why this attitude?? Live your life, girl. And let me live mine. Why talk about me and him when there is no ‘chakkar’.

Earlier, I did not give a shit about it. But now I am worried as the water has reached above my head.

Have I ever asked u about your personal stuff, your personal relations??? No. Then why are you interested in me and him??

In some other matters also, P has given me deep mental pain. She always tries that I should not be on good terms with anyone. So she is there, destroying my relations with everyone I know. Miscommunications are on her mind 24*7. It seems spoiling my relations with others is the sole motto of her life. And now I cannot call everyone and give them clarifications. I don’t know what she is getting from all this? Mental Peace?? By destroying my mental peace??

Like I give you an example. I used to sit with a good male friend of hers in a tuition class. One day, He stopped sitting with me. I was astonished. Later, I came to know that she was the one who instructed her good friend to stop sitting with me and that he should talk less to me. I don’t know what else she said about me to him. And her friend was also like a stupid meek sheep who followed what she said. I hate guys who do womanish stuff. I wonder what made her do that. Jealousy?? Her male friend and I were on good terms. Now It’s almost over.

Stupid girl, take interest in your own life. Make it beautiful.

Just stop confirming from my old colleagues how much I earn, what is my current professional status, where do I work. Concentrate on your own career, not on mine.

And don’t try to spoil my relations with others. I know you are jealous of me, for I earn more than you, I scored more than you, I have a good professional life. I had a really good freind circle which you spoilt. You don’t know how much it hurts when your close ones turn their backs. Just stop talking false and fake stuff about me.

Jammuites have a habit of believing what they are told. And they believed P as if she is some Goddess. One cannot decide about a particular thing unless they hear both the parties. Don’t form a judgement about me on just hearing from her. Hear me, too.

C’mon, GROW UP, people. Make your minds broader. And think beyond chakkars and chugli stuff. Life is beautiful. Enjoy it. Don’t waste it in futile talks affecting others.